Truly Touching....

Some times, some wordings depict a true story. Those wordings touch you so deep inside that you can actually relate yourself to them. And if the matter is of love, if the matter is of broken hearts than that relation becomes more strong. Last whole night sitting on my pc , I was listening to this song sung by Romey Gill, Tutt Gaye Yarane. I don't like mostly the songs sung by him but this song and most importantly its lyrics are so fabulous that they kept me hooked all night. I shall explain the meaning of the song in English as the original song is in Punjabi. Listen the song and I am sure, even if you don't understand Punjabi, you will be able to feel the pain through the words of this song. Have a read:

Lutt ke mohbbatan nu kiti hear feri ve,

Tutt gaye yarane, jind fikran ne gheri ve!

Hanjuan de saagran vich jindagi di beri hai,

Dise na kinara koi maut aap hi saheri hai!

Chhadd gaye mallah kiti minnat batheri hai,

Tutt gaye yarane jind fikran ne gheri ve!

Sar gayi ee batti sade pyar de chirag di,

Mukk gaya tel, loh khind gayi vairag di!

Ronde aa patange nain wagdi haneri ve!

Tutt gaye yarane jind fikran ne gheri ve!

Teri tan "karam" guddi ambran ch khed di,

Bukkran de lokan sadi jind pairi red ti,

Sadi hun paini bas kabran di feri ve,

Tutt gaye yarane jind fikran ne gheri ve!

 

And the meaning in English is :

You have cheated me by deceiving me in love,

My love is lost and I am lost in pain!

In this ocean of tears, the boat of my life is sinking.

There is no way out and death is all which is left now!

The sailors have left this boat too despite so much of requests,

My love is lost and I am lost in pain!

Light of my love's torch is fading away,

Oil is finished for this light too!

Eyes are crying in pain and there is just storm ahead!

My love is lost and I am in so much pain!

Some people have made my life a joke,

All I am left to do is to go and get into my grave!

My love is lost and I am in so much pain!

It is so true when we say that love is the most beautiful gift that one can ge in his/her life. Those are so lucky who have a chance to taste love and get the embrace of their loved ones. It doesn't come to all. Some wait for their whole life but still they never find it. But one must remember this too, its not just finding love which is important. Its also as much important that when does find it, he/she should also care for it, make sure that he/she wont lost it. Its not so difficult to find love coz one doesn't need to do anything for finding it. Love will find you itself but remember to make it sure its there with you, your loved one is with you, its you and just you who have to do the efforts.  Yes love is a relation between two but we cant make some one else do some thing for us forcefully. All we can do is to make sure that we love him/her more than what is our best capability and do all the efforts possible to keep our love with us. If we are thinking that this is the job of the other person than the only person who will lose will be us because we left the responsibility of caring the most precious assets of our to some one else.  Now we cant complain. If it was so important , we must never had given this responsibility to anyone else. Care for your love, do what ever is possible to be with him/her.  Remember its not every day you will find some one who will love you truly and madly, who will bear all the pains for you and still will smile, who will travels miles, cross oceans, climb mountains just to see you for one moment!Its not everyday some one will love you!

As much as its true that love and true lovers are there. But a sad and rude fact is also there that there are some those who don't care about their love and leave them in between of the journey of love alone in the hands of time. That pain of being left alone, that pain of not been able to do anything and just to watch your love leaving you and going away can be understood by only those who have loved and lost it. That pain of waiting for hours to hear one word , just one, to see just for once that person and when tears are the only friend and you look for that person to come and wipe those tears, hide you in his/her hug, nothing is more painful than this fact that there is no one else responsible for those tears but that very person. People feel that if their loved one is there all the places for them , its a botheration for them forgetting this that if some one is caring for you, taking pain for you, he is bothered about you, he is not the biggest problem of your life but he is trying to take away that biggest problem that is making you sad and worried. But not all understand this. For some, promises and swears are meant for the time, if the time has changed than those promises must also change. If the times are not smooth than instead of being with their loved ones and hold their hand, they are the first one to leave them in the middle of the road to take their own path for their happiness. There is nothing wrong in thinking about your happiness, your own good but it is also possible that other person might have gave up everything just for your happiness, for your good and still didn't get 2 tender words even. Its very easy to say to some one that now there is nothing between us and I have nothing to do with you. Its very easy to turn and say to some one that I don't have time for your tears anymore but its not so easy to hear and bear it. Its really not! Its not easy to tell lies to the world, smile and pretend nothing happened when your heart is completely wounded and eyes are filled with tears all the time. Its not so easy to put a smile and say I am fine, its really not!

These are the lines said by a gal who loved and got her heart broken by her love only. Try to feel the pain that she is into through these words. These are in Punjabi,I shall explain the meaning of these lines in English too. Have a read:

Ishq mere nu najran laggian, kise najar na aa k utari ve!

Tere bina na hun koi chahat meri, par bas teri hi judai di maari ve!

Terian yaadan ne aisi haalat kiti, la ditti ik ajeeb bimari ve!

Din tan main hass hass k kattan, har raat ro ro k gujari ve!

Hun main ki dubara hai vassna, main tan apneyan di hathi ujari ve!

Reejhan merian tadpan laggian, main dukhan di agg bali ve!

Hanju meryan ne vain paye, main jad chahvan di chita sarri ve!

Dukhan de vash pai gayi sajna, de de k khushi udhari ve!

Mai sari dunian tan jitt laini is, par bas tere agge aa k haari ve!

 

And the meaning of these lines in English is:

Some one put a bad sight on my love,

And no one did anything for it too!

I loved no one else but you but I am dieing with the pain of your separation!

Your memories has made me mad,

I am sick for the life time with this wound!

Some how I pass my days with fake smiles,

But the nights are passed buried in just tears!

How can I go and settle down now anywhere,

When I am destroyed by my own people!

My wishes are crying now,

I am burning in the fire of pain!

My tears started crying too,

When I buried my desires and love!

Now I am lost in the city of pain,

I have no happiness left coz I have gave away all of mine!

I could have won this entire world,

But I am lost to no one else but just you!

I shall conclude by saying this only that love is not a joke,its not a matter of some time. Its so much tough to do. It gives you happiness but on the cost of  tears. It gives you smile but by looking your loved one smiling. Its the act of losing yourself completely and still being complete. If you are not ready to take this pain than may be love is not for you.  If all what you look for is your happiness, your wishes, your dreams, career than may be love is not some thing which you might need and want. Yes they say "fools fall in love" but remember its doesn't go this way.  Its actually "fools fail in love" thinking that love is some thing which can come to them anytime. They don't mind giving pain to their loved ones thinking that time will heal them. They don't think that when the glass is broken , its crackling sound goes so much far away but when the heart breaks, the sound is heard to only that person who has been ripped into pieces. Its so easy to give some one pain and leave but it takes a life time to learn how can one make some one smile? If you are in love, do what ever you have to make your loved one smile and happy. Don't miss a chance to tell them that you love them. Don't think that they are wasting your time by telling you that they are in love with you coz you have more important things to do. Don't give excuses for not being able to make up your promises coz promises ones broken doesn't need any excuses, logics. Hearts once broken are not cured anywhere. Don't ever and I mean EVER make your loved one cry and disrespect him/her because the heart who loves you,it wont be able to bear that pain that it is broken by no one else but by that person for whom all the heartbeats were devoted. Remember, you may meet millions in this journey of life time but you may never meet that loving heart again whom you broke into pieces. It is said that one doesn't know what they were missing till the time they don't get them and one doesn't understand the importance of some one till the time they don't lose them. Don't wait to lose and understand the importance of that some one special because may be that's the last mistake you would ever do. Time and words never come back and so is love!